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What Makes a Healthy Relationship?

April 29, 2026 — Chris Grace

What does a healthy, God honoring relationship actually look like? After identifying key red flags, Chris Grace shares six essential qualities that build emotional safety, trust, friendship, communication, and spiritual connection.

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Relationship Red Flags (“Ring by Spring” Is NOT in My Top Ten)

April 15, 2026 — Chris Grace

Is “Ring by Spring” really the biggest relationship concern? After decades of working with college students, Chris Grace says no. In this post, he shares ten relationship red flags that matter far more than engagement timelines and why unhealthy dynamics, not speed, are what truly threaten relationships.

Your Relationships Are Only as Strong as Your Skills with Debra Fileta

April 8, 2026 — Chris Grace, Debra Fileta

Most of us think we’re good with people but strong relationships require more than good intentions. In this episode, Chris Grace sits down with counselor and author Debra Fileta to talk about the people skills that make or break connection. From learning to take ownership and recognize your relational filters to moving beyond surface-level conversations, this episode offers practical insight for anyone who wants healthier, deeper relationships.

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How to Cope with an Emotionally Draining Friendship

April 1, 2026 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

Friendships are meant to be life-giving, but some relationships can leave us feeling emotionally exhausted. Learn how to recognize the signs of an emotionally draining friendship and discover healthy ways to set boundaries while still caring for your friend.

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10 Signs of a Rock-Solid Friendship

March 18, 2026 — Chris Grace, Alisa Grace

What makes a friendship truly strong? Healthy friendships are marked by trust, joy, vulnerability, and commitment. Explore 10 signs of a rock-solid friendship and discover what helps relationships thrive over time.

What No One Told You About Sex

March 11, 2026 — Chris Grace, Alisa Grace, Amanda Courvoisier

Sex is one of the most talked about—and least understood—parts of marriage. In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace sit down with Dr. Amanda Courvoisier, PsyD, to unpack the myths many couples believe about sex and how those expectations can quietly create pressure, disappointment, and confusion. If you’ve ever wondered why intimacy sometimes feels harder than expected, this conversation will bring clarity and hope.

Marriage Doesn’t Have to Be This Hard

February 25, 2026 — Arlene Pellicane, Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

What if marriage doesn’t have to feel this hard? In this episode of The Art of Relationships, Chris and Alisa Grace sit down with James and Arlene Pellicane to talk about the practical habits that help marriages grow stronger over time. From learning how to receive each other’s influence and navigating disagreements with humility, to addressing tone, leadership, and even the importance of having fun together, this conversation offers honest insight and simple tools for couples who want more than just survival — they want connection.

How Forgiveness Heals What Trauma Breaks with Dr. Matt Williams

February 11, 2026 — Chris Grace, Alisa Grace, Matthew Williams

Forgiveness is central to the Christian life—but it’s often misunderstood. In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace sit down with Dr. Matt Williams to unpack what biblical forgiveness really is, what it’s not, and why reconciliation isn’t always required. You’ll learn how unforgiveness affects us spiritually, emotionally, and physically—and how true forgiveness leads to freedom, healing, and peace, even after deep wounds.

How To Find Your People

January 28, 2026 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

Finding meaningful friendships as an adult can feel confusing, slow, and even painful—but you’re not alone. In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace unpack why we were created for community and what it really takes to build Christ-centered friendships that last. They explore the biblical foundation for friendship, common barriers like fear, unrealistic expectations, and life transitions, and offer practical, hope-filled steps for taking initiative, building trust, and becoming the kind of friend you’re hoping to find. If you’re longing for deeper connection and life-giving community, this conversation will encourage and equip you to take the next step.

The Marriage Habit: 10 Simple Practices to Build a More Intentional, Thriving Relationship

January 14, 2026 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

What if a healthier marriage is built not on big breakthroughs, but on small, faithful habits? In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace talk with Casey and Meygan Caston of Marriage 365 about how simple, intentional practices—like weekly check-ins, scheduling sex, and small acts of humility and gratitude—can reduce conflict, deepen intimacy, and resist relational drift, offering practical, hope-filled tools you can start using right away.

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