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When You Think They Can't Tell You're Upset, Think Again!

Tim Muehlhoff - January 10, 2018

We tend to think that if we hold back from expressing our thoughts or emotions, that no one will notice we are upset. Dr. Tim Muehlhoff explains a communication principle today that might have you re-think that idea! People around you may be able to pick up what you are feeling, whether you want them to or not!

Are Opposite Sex Friendships Okay in Marriage?

Chris Grace - January 9, 2018



The Power of Influence in Marriage

Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff - January 3, 2018

Continuing their discussion of influence and it's role in relationships, Dr. Chris Grace and Dr. Tim Muehlhoff turn their focus to marriage. In marriage, what role does influence play? How much influence should there be in decision making? How does your spouse express their opinions and desires? Do you have the chance to express yours? Listen as they discuss influence. Does it spark any thoughts on your own relationship? Share with us!

Humble Disagreements

Tim Muehlhoff - January 2, 2018

Our culture does not show how to handle disagreements well. Have you noticed? We are continually told that everyone can have their own perspective, but if you tell someone that you are right and they are wrong, that is close-minded or hurtful. We need to learn how to express our opinions and respect the opinions of others in a humble way that will encourage conversation rather than be divisive. 

Do People Perceive You As Interested or Interesting?

Chris Grace - December 27, 2017

Sometimes, when interacting with other people we can default to showing the things about us that we believe will make us most interesting to them. However, in order to connect with others and give them a sense of being understood and listened to, we can change our approach from being trying to be interesting to being interested. Just how is that done? What will that do for the people we spend time with?

The Power of Influence pt. II

Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff - December 20, 2017

How important is it to be able to influence the decisions or direction in your relationships?  A vital part of relationships is listening to each other. But, if your opinions or thoughts do not impact another person, is that something that should be addressed? Today, Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and Dr. Chris Grace talk through when you are not able to influence people close to you and what that might mean in your relationships.

Want To Encourage A Younger Married Couple? Here's How!

Chris Grace - December 13, 2017

Here at the Center, we often get questions about how to practically help encourage young married couples as they get started on their journey. What things can be done that will help them grow together, in good times and bad? What are they going to need the most help in? Dr. Chris Grace offers some very practical, simple ways to communicate your support and encouragement to newly married couples. Try some of them out and let us know how the couple responds!

The Power of Influence pt. I

Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff - December 6, 2017

There are a lot of things in life that influence us, for better or for worse. Do you notice you care more about the opinion of some people more than others? Are you drawn to certain personalities over others? Do you trust people instinctively, even if you have just met them? Where does influence come from? Today, Dr. Chris Grace and Dr. Tim Muehlhoff talk through influence, the power that it can hold in our lives, and how we can learn to be influenced by the things we want to be influenced by, rather than just anything we encounter. 

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