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Tense Holiday Conversations and the Third Story

December 22, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

Holiday gatherings provide the perfect opportunity for them to surface. If pressed into an unavoidable conversation, how should you start it?

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Disagreements: Choosing Your Battles

December 2, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

Conflict is a part of every friendship, working relationship, and marriage. But when it comes to disagreements, how can you know which fights are worth having, and which ones are worth letting go? In this video, Dr. Tim Muehlhoff shares two criteria to guide your decision.

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Causes of Conflict Pt 3: “Can you hear me now?”

December 1, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

In this blog, Dr. Tim Muehlhoff explains how a speaker's credibility affects our communication during conflict.

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Causes of Conflict Pt 2: "That's not how I see it!"

November 17, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

Read more for tips on how to promote productive conversations using the process of perception-checking.

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Causes of Conflict Pt 1: "We Argue Too!"

November 10, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

In the next several blogs, Tim Muehlhoff will address the most common reasons conflict occurs in even the best of relationships.

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Fifty Shades of Gray and the Cycle of Abuse

October 20, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff confronts the hype behind Fifty Shades of Gray and outlines the dangerous cycle of abuse in relationships.

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Cultivating Spiritual Transformation in Marriage

October 19, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

In this brief clip, Dr. Tim Muehlhoff poses a very important question - where do you get the power to put this knowledge into practice?

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Lasting Commitment in an Age of Divorce

October 6, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff discusses how the normalcy of divorce affects culture and the way we think.

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What's The Climate Of Your Marriage?

September 22, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

"How can I assess the climate of my marriage? What does that even mean?" Read more to find out.

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The First Step for Effective Communication: Reclaiming the Power of Words

September 9, 2015 — Tim Muehlhoff

The essential first step in crafting a difficult conversation is to reclaim a healthy respect for the power of words. When preparing to engage another in a difficult conversation we must acknowledge and anticipate the impact our words could have on another.

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