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Discerning God’s Will vs. Personal Desires

June 9, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

How Do I Know If It’s God’s Will or Just What I Want? Is that job offer, relationship, or big move from God—or just your own desire? Discerning God’s timing and will can feel confusing, especially when your dreams are involved. In this post, we explore practical ways to listen for His voice, check your motives, and move forward with peace—even in the unknown.

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Forgiveness Is Not For Them – It’s for YOU

May 27, 2025 — Debra Fileta

What if the very thing holding you back from experiencing deep, wholehearted love… isn’t what you think it is? In this powerful and honest post, we explore how unforgiveness quietly traps us in the past, keeping us stuck in cycles of pain, bitterness, and broken trust. Through a relatable story of heartbreak, biblical wisdom, and gentle encouragement, you’ll be invited to examine the wounds you’re carrying—and discover how forgiveness isn’t about letting others off the hook, but about setting yourself free. It’s time to stop looking back and start stepping into the love and freedom God has for you.

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How to Navigate Pornography in a Dating Relationship

May 13, 2025 — John Begeman

“Have you asked him about his history with pornography?” It’s a question most of us don’t know how to ask—but in today’s dating world, it’s too important to ignore. This blog offers a practical, grace-filled framework to help you approach the conversation with courage, curiosity, and compassion—so you can pursue honesty, health, and hope in your relationships.

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Ask the Expert: Do we have to be financially stable to get married?

April 28, 2025 — Chris Grace

“Do we have to be financially stable before we get married?” It’s one of the most common questions we hear from couples—and the truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. In this honest and practical post, Dr. Chris Grace shares what really matters more than a padded bank account: a plan, a support system, and a deep commitment to face the future together. Whether you're weighing wisdom or just wondering if love can survive on a student budget and a returned grill, this one's for you.

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When Life Changes, How Do Friendships Survive?

April 15, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

Post-grad life comes with unexpected shifts—especially when it comes to friendships. What once felt effortless now requires intentionality, grace, and growth. In this honest reflection, Tatum Munivez shares what she's learning about navigating change, staying connected, and building Christ-centered friendships that last—even when life looks completely different. If you're in a season of transition, this one’s for you.

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8 Signs Someone Might Not Actually Care About You

April 2, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

In this blog, Tatum Munivez explores the difficult realization that someone you care deeply for may not be reciprocating that care. Through eight key signs — like boundary violations, emotional manipulation, lack of support, and withheld affection — she guides readers to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns. Rather than stirring drama, the goal is to protect your peace and make room for life-giving connections that reflect God’s heart. Tatum reminds us that we are worthy of love that’s mutual, honoring, and safe — and sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to let go.

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How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (and it's not what you think)

March 19, 2025 — Alisa Grace

Many parents find that after having children, their marriage slowly takes a backseat. The once-strong connection between husband and wife is replaced by endless to-do lists, school activities, and bedtime routines. Before they know it, their relationship feels more like a business partnership than a loving marriage.

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An Open Letter To the Depressed Christian

March 5, 2025 — Debra Fileta

In this blog, Debra Fileta challenges the harmful belief that depression is a sign of weakness or a lack of faith in Christians. Drawing from her own journey through the depths of depression, she confronts the myths that often surround mental illness in the church. What if struggling doesn’t mean you’re weak, but rather incredibly strong? What if faith and healing go hand in hand? As she unpacks these misconceptions, Fileta offers a powerful message of hope, reminding readers that God’s presence is never absent in their pain.

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Ask the Expert: Leaving, Cleaving, and Letting Go?

February 19, 2025 — Willa Williams

Our families shape so much of who we are—our values, beliefs, and even the way we expect relationships to function. But when we get married, those ingrained expectations don’t always align with our spouse’s background. So, what does leaving and cleaving really mean in this context?

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You Don’t Find “The One”, You Choose “The One”

February 5, 2025 — Debra Fileta

Finding “the one” isn’t about luck, feelings, or divine revelation—it’s a choice. Debra Fileta challenges the passive approach many Christians take, comparing it to picking a watermelon based on guesswork. A strong relationship isn’t found but built through intentional choices, communication, and time. Rushing in without discernment leads to heartbreak, while wisdom and preparation help ensure a healthy marriage. Ultimately, “the one” is the person you commit to for life.

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