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Why Do We Judge Others?

January 22, 2025 — Mick Ukleja

Judging others is a natural but harmful habit often based on incomplete information and personal biases. These snap judgments can damage relationships and reflect our own insecurities. Without self-awareness, we risk repeating these mistakes, distorting our understanding of others. Scripture calls for self-reflection and compassion, reminding us to approach others with empathy. By withholding premature judgments, we create opportunities for deeper connections and mutual understanding.

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Ask the Expert: We can’t agree about our teen dating.

January 8, 2025 — Alisa Grace

The question "How do you come to an agreement on your teenager's dating when you and your spouse grew up so differently?" is addressed by Alisa Grace with four thoughtful steps. She emphasizes starting with prayer for wisdom and unity, listening to understand each other’s perspectives without judgment, and working together as a team to brainstorm and implement solutions. By fostering open communication and mutual respect, parents can align their approaches and create a unified plan for navigating their teenager’s dating journey.

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25 Easy Tips to Stop Your Marriage From Growing Apart

December 26, 2024 — Alisa Grace

In this blog, Alisa Grace explains that couples don’t just “grow apart”—they stop nurturing their relationship. She shares how intentional daily efforts can rekindle intimacy and connection, offering 25 practical tips like expressing gratitude, showing affection, and spending time together. The core principle is to start each day asking, “What can I do today to make my spouse happy to be alive and married to me?” Alisa encourages practicing a few of these tips consistently to reignite love and strengthen the bond.

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Your Family or Mine? 6 Keys to Planning the Holidays with In-Laws

December 4, 2024 — Alisa Grace

In this blog, Alisa Grace reflects on the challenges of navigating holidays as in-laws, particularly when sharing grown children and their spouses with other families. She emphasizes the importance of embracing a "new normal" by fostering open communication, empathy, and flexibility. Rather than clinging to specific dates, Alisa encourages focusing on meaningful connections and adapting traditions to fit everyone’s needs. Sharing her own experience, she notes that celebrating Thanksgiving on a different day allowed her family to prioritize quality time together, reinforcing that the heart of the holiday lies in the time spent, not the date itself.

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Journey Down Gratitude Lane: Cultivating Thankfulness This Thanksgiving

November 20, 2024 — Chris Grace

In this blog by Chris Grace, explore the deep connection between gratitude and a fulfilling life, as revealed in scripture and supported by modern research. Chris highlights how thankfulness strengthens relationships, deepens commitments, and brings joy. With practical steps like keeping a gratitude journal and practicing mindful appreciation, this piece offers a roadmap for embracing gratitude. Perfect for the Thanksgiving season, it encourages readers to reflect on blessings, strengthen connections, and walk down Gratitude Lane toward a life abundant with love and peace.

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A Guide to Singleness: For Your 20s

October 9, 2024 — Debra Fileta

In "A Guide to Singleness: For Your 20s," Debra Fileta challenges the pressures of finding love in your 20s and offers empowering advice on embracing this season of life. She shares key insights on self-discovery, enjoying meaningful relationships, and trusting God’s timing for love. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the wait or societal expectations, this guide will encourage you to stop waiting and start fully living. Dive in to discover how to make the most of your 20s!

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Pick Your Pain: Choosing the Path of Growth in Relationships

October 2, 2024 — Willa Williams

Avoiding conflict and emotional discomfort may seem like the easiest route, but it often leads to greater loneliness, bitterness, and regret. In this article, we explore why there is no pain-free option in relationships and how choosing the right kind of pain—like confronting tough conversations or seeking reconciliation—can lead to deeper connection, freedom, and personal growth.

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3 Must-Haves for a Healthy Relationship

September 25, 2024 — Willa Williams

Relationships can be complicated, but having a "map" for navigating them makes a world of difference. This article explores three foundational principles—being kind, descriptive, and curious—that are essential for building and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships. By focusing on these, you can better understand and connect with others while minimizing conflict

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How Does Your Attachment Style Affect Your Relationships?

September 18, 2024 — Jacqueline Mack-Harris

Ever wonder why we relate to people the way we do? In this week’s blog, Attachment Theory Therapist Dr. Jacqueline Mack-Harris explains the effects of different attachment styles and how to find corrective healing through deep relationships.

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Do The Math On Motherhood

May 8, 2024 — Amy Burgess

In today's blog, Amy Burgess discusses the years beyond motherhood, encouraging mothers to discover who they are and how they can find their purpose in every season of their lives.

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