Think you and your spouse speak the same language? You might be surprised. Each of us brings a unique “personal culture” into every relationship—shaped by our upbringing, experiences, and assumptions. When those hidden differences collide, misunderstandings can quickly follow. Learning to recognize your personal cultural “software” can deepen empathy, improve communication, and transform how you connect.

Your kids are always watching—even when you don't realize it. Could the way you handle conflict, criticism, or communication be unintentionally teaching them how to destroy relationships? Discover six subtle habits that may be shaping your child’s future more than you think—and how to model something better.

Ever feel stuck avoiding a conversation because you're afraid it might damage the relationship? In this episode of The Art of Relationships, Chris and Alisa Grace share practical and biblical tools for navigating hard conversations with humility, clarity, and grace. From preparing your heart to using the affirmation sandwich technique, they offer actionable advice to help you communicate honestly while preserving trust and connection in any relationship.

Think your roommate situation is rough? You haven’t heard anything yet. From disappearing makeup bags and surprise overnight guests to passive-aggressive notes and boundary violations, Chris and Alisa Grace dive into real college roommate horror stories—and what we can all learn from them. Tune in for practical advice on communication, setting healthy boundaries, and maintaining peace in shared spaces. You’ll laugh, cringe, and walk away better equipped to handle the people you live with (or might live with someday).

In this episode, Alisa Grace sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Willa Williams to unpack the often-confused concepts of boundaries and ultimatums. They explore the difference between making a request, setting a boundary, and issuing an ultimatum—highlighting how tone, intention, and personal responsibility can either build connection or create division in your relationships.

In this episode, Chris Grace sits down with special guests Sean McDowell and Tim Muehlhoff, co-authors of End the Stalemate, to tackle the challenge of navigating difficult conversations in a polarized world. Together, they share practical strategies like building relational capital, showing compassion, and knowing when and how to share truth. With personal stories and real-world examples, Chris, Sean, and Tim equip listeners to engage in meaningful, respectful dialogue even on divisive topics. Whether you're working through tough discussions with family, friends, or colleagues, this episode offers tools to strengthen relationships while staying true to your convictions.

In this episode, Chris Grace sits down with special guests Sean McDowell and Tim Muehlhoff, co-authors of End the Stalemate, to explore the art of having difficult conversations in today's polarized world. They discuss how to navigate disagreements, the role of contempt in damaging relationships, and the importance of empathy and perspective-taking. Providing practical tips, they help listeners communicate more effectively and maintain healthy relationships, even when faced with differing opinions.

In this episode, Alisa Grace and special guest Willa Williams, a licensed marriage and family therapist, discuss the “Top 6 Relationship Killers” that often hinder our closest connections. They explore common destructive habits, such as taking things personally, assuming the worst, and failing to show empathy, offering practical insights to help listeners build stronger, healthier relationships. Whether you're navigating friendships, family dynamics, or romantic partnerships, this episode provides valuable advice to transform your interactions.

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore bids for attention—small interactions that can significantly impact the strength of a relationship. They discuss how recognizing and responding to these bids can prevent couples from drifting apart, drawing on research from Drs. John and Julie Gottman. The Grace's provide practical insights and tips to help you stay connected with your partner, emphasizing the power of intentional time together. Whether you're navigating life with a significant other, friends, or even colleagues, this episode offers valuable advice to improve your relationships.

Relationships can be complicated, but having a "map" for navigating them makes a world of difference. This article explores three foundational principles—being kind, descriptive, and curious—that are essential for building and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships. By focusing on these, you can better understand and connect with others while minimizing conflict