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Roommate HORROR Stories!

April 9, 2025 — Chris Grace, Alisa Grace

Think your roommate situation is rough? You haven’t heard anything yet. From disappearing makeup bags and surprise overnight guests to passive-aggressive notes and boundary violations, Chris and Alisa Grace dive into real college roommate horror stories—and what we can all learn from them. Tune in for practical advice on communication, setting healthy boundaries, and maintaining peace in shared spaces. You’ll laugh, cringe, and walk away better equipped to handle the people you live with (or might live with someday).

Boundaries vs. Ultimatums with Willa Williams

March 27, 2025 — Willa Williams, Alisa Grace

In this episode, Alisa Grace sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Willa Williams to unpack the often-confused concepts of boundaries and ultimatums. They explore the difference between making a request, setting a boundary, and issuing an ultimatum—highlighting how tone, intention, and personal responsibility can either build connection or create division in your relationships.

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How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (and it's not what you think)

March 19, 2025 — Alisa Grace

Many parents find that after having children, their marriage slowly takes a backseat. The once-strong connection between husband and wife is replaced by endless to-do lists, school activities, and bedtime routines. Before they know it, their relationship feels more like a business partnership than a loving marriage.

The Parenting Trap: How Modern Culture Is Ruining Childhood with Tim Carney

March 12, 2025 — Alisa Grace, Tim Carney, Chris Grace

In this episode, Chris Grace sits down with Tim Carney, author of Family Unfriendly: How Our Culture Made Raising Kids Much Harder Than It Needs to Be. They dive into the challenges of modern parenting, discussing how cultural shifts, over-scheduling, and fear-based parenting have made raising kids more stressful than ever. Tim shares insights on how we can reclaim community-driven parenting, encourage independence in our children, and create a more family-friendly culture.

Love Languages: How to Show Love to Every Person in Your Life This Valentine’s Day

February 12, 2025 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the concept of love languages and how understanding them can transform your relationships. They discuss the five love languages—quality time, words of affirmation, gift-giving, acts of service, and physical touch—popularized by Dr. Gary Chapman. They provide practical insights on how to identify and speak your own love language and those of your loved ones to foster deeper connections.

When You Don't Know Who You Are Anymore with Guests Arianna Molloy and Tim Muehlhoff

January 29, 2025 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace, Alisa Grace, Arianna Molloy

In this episode, Chris Grace explores the complexities of navigating identity and calling, especially in the context of work and relationships with guests Arianna Molloy and Tim Muehlhoff. They discuss how a calling is not just about individual fulfillment but deeply tied to our relationship with God and community. Their conversation touches on understanding work as a calling, avoiding burnout, setting boundaries, and finding rest in God. They provide practical insights and tips for anyone feeling overwhelmed by life's demands. Whether you're managing relationships with coworkers, family, or friends, this episode offers valuable advice to help you cultivate a sustainable work-life balance.

Sexpectations in Marriage with Guests Shaunti Feldhahn & Brian Goins

January 15, 2025 — Brian Goins, Chris Grace, Alisa Grace, Shaunti Feldhahn

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of expectations in marital intimacy. They welcome special guests Shaunti Feldhahn, an award-winning author and social researcher, and Brian Goins, Senior Director of Strategic Projects at FamilyLife. Together, they delve into the dynamics of initiating and receptive desire, the impact of communication, and practical ways couples can foster understanding and intimacy.

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Ask the Expert: We can’t agree about our teen dating.

January 8, 2025 — Alisa Grace

The question "How do you come to an agreement on your teenager's dating when you and your spouse grew up so differently?" is addressed by Alisa Grace with four thoughtful steps. She emphasizes starting with prayer for wisdom and unity, listening to understand each other’s perspectives without judgment, and working together as a team to brainstorm and implement solutions. By fostering open communication and mutual respect, parents can align their approaches and create a unified plan for navigating their teenager’s dating journey.

Breaking the Chains of Pornography with Guest Nick Stumbo

January 1, 2025 — Nick Stumbo, Chris Grace, Alisa Grace

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the challenges and impacts of pornography in relationships and personal lives with special guest Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire. They discuss the pervasive issue of pornography in Christian communities, its mental, relational, and spiritual implications, and the path to freedom through grace-filled healing. Offering insights into breaking cycles of shame and addiction, this episode provides practical tips to help listeners pursue healthy, Christ-centered relationships.

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25 Easy Tips to Stop Your Marriage From Growing Apart

December 26, 2024 — Alisa Grace

In this blog, Alisa Grace explains that couples don’t just “grow apart”—they stop nurturing their relationship. She shares how intentional daily efforts can rekindle intimacy and connection, offering 25 practical tips like expressing gratitude, showing affection, and spending time together. The core principle is to start each day asking, “What can I do today to make my spouse happy to be alive and married to me?” Alisa encourages practicing a few of these tips consistently to reignite love and strengthen the bond.

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