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PSA: You Don’t Have to Please Everyone

June 20, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

Do you constantly say yes to avoid letting people down? If the thought of disappointing others fills you with guilt or anxiety, you’re not alone. This post unpacks the fear of people-pleasing, how it subtly takes over our lives, and what Scripture says about living for God’s approval—not everyone else's.

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Discerning God’s Will vs. Personal Desires

June 9, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

How Do I Know If It’s God’s Will or Just What I Want? Is that job offer, relationship, or big move from God—or just your own desire? Discerning God’s timing and will can feel confusing, especially when your dreams are involved. In this post, we explore practical ways to listen for His voice, check your motives, and move forward with peace—even in the unknown.

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How to Navigate Pornography in a Dating Relationship

May 13, 2025 — John Begeman

“Have you asked him about his history with pornography?” It’s a question most of us don’t know how to ask—but in today’s dating world, it’s too important to ignore. This blog offers a practical, grace-filled framework to help you approach the conversation with courage, curiosity, and compassion—so you can pursue honesty, health, and hope in your relationships.

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When Life Changes, How Do Friendships Survive?

April 15, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

Post-grad life comes with unexpected shifts—especially when it comes to friendships. What once felt effortless now requires intentionality, grace, and growth. In this honest reflection, Tatum Munivez shares what she's learning about navigating change, staying connected, and building Christ-centered friendships that last—even when life looks completely different. If you're in a season of transition, this one’s for you.

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8 Signs Someone Might Not Actually Care About You

April 2, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

In this blog, Tatum Munivez explores the difficult realization that someone you care deeply for may not be reciprocating that care. Through eight key signs — like boundary violations, emotional manipulation, lack of support, and withheld affection — she guides readers to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns. Rather than stirring drama, the goal is to protect your peace and make room for life-giving connections that reflect God’s heart. Tatum reminds us that we are worthy of love that’s mutual, honoring, and safe — and sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to let go.

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An Open Letter To the Depressed Christian

March 5, 2025 — Debra Fileta

In this blog, Debra Fileta challenges the harmful belief that depression is a sign of weakness or a lack of faith in Christians. Drawing from her own journey through the depths of depression, she confronts the myths that often surround mental illness in the church. What if struggling doesn’t mean you’re weak, but rather incredibly strong? What if faith and healing go hand in hand? As she unpacks these misconceptions, Fileta offers a powerful message of hope, reminding readers that God’s presence is never absent in their pain.

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You Don’t Find “The One”, You Choose “The One”

February 5, 2025 — Debra Fileta

Finding “the one” isn’t about luck, feelings, or divine revelation—it’s a choice. Debra Fileta challenges the passive approach many Christians take, comparing it to picking a watermelon based on guesswork. A strong relationship isn’t found but built through intentional choices, communication, and time. Rushing in without discernment leads to heartbreak, while wisdom and preparation help ensure a healthy marriage. Ultimately, “the one” is the person you commit to for life.

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Why Do We Judge Others?

January 22, 2025 — Mick Ukleja

Judging others is a natural but harmful habit often based on incomplete information and personal biases. These snap judgments can damage relationships and reflect our own insecurities. Without self-awareness, we risk repeating these mistakes, distorting our understanding of others. Scripture calls for self-reflection and compassion, reminding us to approach others with empathy. By withholding premature judgments, we create opportunities for deeper connections and mutual understanding.

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25 Easy Tips to Stop Your Marriage From Growing Apart

December 26, 2024 — Alisa Grace

In this blog, Alisa Grace explains that couples don’t just “grow apart”—they stop nurturing their relationship. She shares how intentional daily efforts can rekindle intimacy and connection, offering 25 practical tips like expressing gratitude, showing affection, and spending time together. The core principle is to start each day asking, “What can I do today to make my spouse happy to be alive and married to me?” Alisa encourages practicing a few of these tips consistently to reignite love and strengthen the bond.

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Your Family or Mine? 6 Keys to Planning the Holidays with In-Laws

December 4, 2024 — Alisa Grace

In this blog, Alisa Grace reflects on the challenges of navigating holidays as in-laws, particularly when sharing grown children and their spouses with other families. She emphasizes the importance of embracing a "new normal" by fostering open communication, empathy, and flexibility. Rather than clinging to specific dates, Alisa encourages focusing on meaningful connections and adapting traditions to fit everyone’s needs. Sharing her own experience, she notes that celebrating Thanksgiving on a different day allowed her family to prioritize quality time together, reinforcing that the heart of the holiday lies in the time spent, not the date itself.

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