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The Hidden “Software” Running Every Relationship

October 29, 2025 — Tuvya Zaretsky

Think you and your spouse speak the same language? You might be surprised. Each of us brings a unique “personal culture” into every relationship—shaped by our upbringing, experiences, and assumptions. When those hidden differences collide, misunderstandings can quickly follow. Learning to recognize your personal cultural “software” can deepen empathy, improve communication, and transform how you connect.

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