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What Makes a Good Relationship?

February 19, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

We often focus on negative aspects to avoid when evaluating relationships. But what makes a good relationship? In this episode, Tim and Chris discuss a few indicators of healthy relationships.

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Why Do We Place People in the “Friend Zone"?

February 18, 2020 — Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff

Why do people automatically assign people to zones like the “friend zone”? Why do we sometimes change the zones we put them in?

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Is Your Marriage Affected By Affluenza?

February 11, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff

Woody Allen once said, “We spend money we don’t have, to buy things we don’t need, to impress people we don’t like.” This very phrase might be one that describes "affluenza." In this video, Dr. Tim Muehlhoff defines affluenza and assesses the danger of it in relationships.

Confronting Negative Biases

February 5, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Words matter, and unfortunately, negative words are often the ones that stick with us. Proverbs 18:21 says, "life and death are in the power of the tongue." In this episode, Chris and Tim explore negative biases, where they come from, how they impact relationships, and how to deal with them.

Cohabitation: Why not live together?

January 22, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Doesn’t it make sense to save money by living together before marriage? According to research, cohabitation actually has negative consequences on the longevity of the relationship. In this episode, we share fascinating insights on the differences between couples who are cohabitating and couples who are married.

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How Important are Friendships in Marriage or Dating Relationships?

January 15, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Dr. Chris Grace and Dr. Tim Muehlhoff share some things they have learned over the years about friendship within marriage and dating relationships!

The Top Three Types of Compatibility

January 8, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

When we find someone who is compatible with us, we most likely find that person more attractive, develop greater intimacy and connection, and establish a solid friendship. It is clear that compatibility matters – so what are the types of compatibility that are most important to determining relational health and success? In this podcast, we explore three types of core compatibility and what they mean for our relationships.

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Is This Person The One? How Do I Know?

January 1, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and Dr. Chris Grace share some of their thoughts on how to evaluate a relationship when considering the future.

How Can I Stay Invested In The Relationship?

December 25, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

What counts as a date-night? How do I balance my relationship with the rest of life's demands? In this episode of the podcast, we continue the conversation with Dr. Bradford Wilcox, Director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia. He points to some research and advice on the benefit of making small investments in your marriage. As a father of nine children, he has learned quite a few lessons on this topic personally.

How Do I Recognize Spiritual Attack In My Marriage?

December 11, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

In the majority of Western culture, the idea of spiritual warfare is not talked about often. In the context of marriage, most couples tend to under-emphasize spiritual warfare in their relationship rather than over-emphasizing it. Why is that? When you take a step back and look at our world, it is easy to see that something is wrong. It can feel that there is a war going on and we are caught in the cross-fire. In your relationship, how can you tell if there is a spiritual attack going on? Are there signs that are universal?

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