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Can You Be Friends with Your Ex?

February 4, 2020 — Chris Grace

Do you think it is possible for two people to stay friends after a romantic relationship has ended between them? If so, what does a healthy friendship look like?

Cohabitation: Why not live together?

January 22, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Doesn’t it make sense to save money by living together before marriage? According to research, cohabitation actually has negative consequences on the longevity of the relationship. In this episode, we share fascinating insights on the differences between couples who are cohabitating and couples who are married.

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Should A Man Treat A Girlfriend Like A Wife?

January 21, 2020 — Chris Grace

Suppose two people are dating in which there is a mutual commitment before God for marriage in the future. Is it wrong for a man to treat her with the same love and care that he would his wife while only dating?

how important are friendships with others in marriage?

How Important are Friendships in Marriage or Dating Relationships?

January 15, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Dr. Chris Grace and Dr. Tim Muehlhoff share some things they have learned over the years about friendship within marriage and dating relationships!

The Top Three Types of Compatibility

January 8, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

When we find someone who is compatible with us, we most likely find that person more attractive, develop greater intimacy and connection, and establish a solid friendship. It is clear that compatibility matters – so what are the types of compatibility that are most important to determining relational health and success? In this podcast, we explore three types of core compatibility and what they mean for our relationships.

is this person 'the one'? How do I know?

Is This Person The One? How Do I Know?

January 1, 2020 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff and Dr. Chris Grace share some of their thoughts on how to evaluate a relationship when considering the future.

How Can I Stay Invested In The Relationship?

December 25, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

What counts as a date-night? How do I balance my relationship with the rest of life's demands? In this episode of the podcast, we continue the conversation with Dr. Bradford Wilcox, Director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia. He points to some research and advice on the benefit of making small investments in your marriage. As a father of nine children, he has learned quite a few lessons on this topic personally.

How Do I Recognize Spiritual Attack In My Marriage?

December 11, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

In the majority of Western culture, the idea of spiritual warfare is not talked about often. In the context of marriage, most couples tend to under-emphasize spiritual warfare in their relationship rather than over-emphasizing it. Why is that? When you take a step back and look at our world, it is easy to see that something is wrong. It can feel that there is a war going on and we are caught in the cross-fire. In your relationship, how can you tell if there is a spiritual attack going on? Are there signs that are universal?

Chris and Alisa Grace

An Impossible Prayer

December 6, 2019 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

This year was record-breaking for the Center for Marriage and Relationships. We are incredibly grateful for the support of people like you to help fund our efforts.

7 qualities of a happy marriage

7 Qualities of A Happy Marriage

December 4, 2019 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

According to leading marriage researcher John Gottman, there are seven qualities of a happy marriage. In this video, Dr. Chris and Alisa Grace explain these seven traits and their roles within relationships.

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