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Is This Friendship Toxic?

October 16, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

Friendships are supposed to be life-giving, but what happens when they are not? What can you look for in friendships that bring the opposite? In this podcast, Dr. Chris Grace and Dr. Tim Muehlhoff discuss how to identify and deal with toxic friendships.

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Avoid Conflict and Ruin A Relationship

October 15, 2019 — Chris Grace

"I hate conflict, and any confrontations make me physically stressed out. I usually try to avoid it. However, I know I need to have a talk with someone I love because our conflict is just sitting there and simmering, but I don’t know how to start."

Your Marriage Is On Display!

October 2, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

When you haven't had a model for what a healthy relationship looks like, where do you turn? We talk with Mike and Stephanie Anderson as they describe their story. Growing up in a home without a solid model of marriage, Mike had doubts about marriage being worth investing in. Where he learned to appreciate marriage may surprise you!

Fear or Love: What Is Motivating You?

September 18, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

When a person wants to change something about their life, how should they be motivated? Often, fear motivates a person to try to change their behavior or cover their actions so no one sees it. What would acceptance and love do for that person? In this podcast episode, we continue our conversation with Karrie Garcia the work she has done with addicts or those tempted with adultery or those caught in shame.

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He Has An Overly Friendly Co-Worker

September 17, 2019 — Chris Grace

"My spouse has a co-worker that is overly friendly and it is creating fears, doubts and insecurities in me."

Is Marriage Worth Choosing?

August 21, 2019 — Debra Fileta, Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff

"If you're not fighting in a relationship, then someone's lying. Someone's not telling the truth because you're taking a passive stance...There is a huge difference between selflessness and passivity. A lot of times in the name of selflessness, we're just like 'Well, I'm not going to bring it up. I'm not going to say what I need. I'm not going to talk through this.' That's not selflessness, that's conflict avoiding." Today we continue the conversation with author Debra Fileta on how intentionally couples need to continually choose marriage rather than choosing to focus on personal happiness.

What Should Dating Look Like?

August 7, 2019 — Debra Fileta, Chris Grace, Tim Muehlhoff

First dates, love notes, romance, there are so many different approaches to how it should be done. Christians are often told to avoid the hookup culture that is so common today, but beyond that, what should they do?

Are You Partnering With The Holy Spirit?

July 24, 2019 — Tim Muehlhoff, Chris Grace

"We're talking about gritty, person to person intimacy of two people who know each other better than anyone else on the planet, and they still remain committed and in love with one another." Dennis Rainey had a vision to help equip engaged and newly married couples around him. He felt the need struggling relationships had for tools and felt God call him to help mentor them. Fast forward 40 years and FamilyLife Conferences have reached hundreds of thousands of couples who want to set a strong foundation for their relationship. We got to talk about how marriage is changing and struggles that many couples find themselves in.

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How Do I Tell Them About THAT?

July 23, 2019 — Chris Grace

"Do you have any advice on how to share your sexual history with someone you’re dating? It’s a really tough subject to bring up."

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Sex, Pornography, & Relationship Health Scale

July 18, 2019 — Chris Grace

Sexuality as designed by God—within the context of marriage—is joyful, pleasurable and relationship strengthening. It is a gift from God to be enjoyed.

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