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Dealing with Difficult In-laws?

February 1, 2022 — Willa Williams

My in-laws are having a hard time cutting the cord when it comes to my wife. They try to get involved in everything we do and it's causing us conflict. We're considering seeing a marriage counselor, but do you think her parents should be included in the marriage counseling?

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How Can I Support A Friend Who Is Depressed?

January 10, 2022 — Chris Grace

My roommate struggles with depression, and she is often discouraged about the things going on in her life. I am thankful that I can be her friend; it seems like not many others know or understand what she's going through. What should I do?

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Is It Okay If My Only Friend Is My Boyfriend?

October 26, 2021 — Aubrey Martin

My boyfriend and I are struggling to manage balancing time together while still maintaining our friendships with others. Is it important to maintain those friendships? If so, why?

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"They Are Still Upset At Me!"

August 3, 2021 — Timothy Muehlhoff

With post-argument conflict, what do you do if one spouse is ready to resolve things and the other is still upset and doesn't want to make amends just yet?

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Thinking About Getting Engaged?

April 13, 2021 — Chris Grace

What are some specific questions that my girlfriend and I should talk about to see if we should get married?

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Is There Forgiveness After Sex Before Marriage?

March 30, 2021 — Veola Vazquez

Will God forgive me if I have had sex before marriage?

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How to Break Up With Someone Respectfully

February 23, 2021 — Debra Fileta

How do you call it quits after you’ve been going out a few times, but you don’t want to continue the relationship?

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How Do I Support My Child When We Don't Agree?

February 9, 2021 — Willa Williams

We've always taught our 17-yr-old son to stand up/speak up for what is right and don't be a silent by-stander when wrong happens. However, some of his values are changing and don't necessarily reflect the values we taught him growing up. Now he's getting bullied at school because of his outspoken views, which he truly feels passionately about. We love his passion and willingness to stand up for what he believes is right, but how can we as parents be supportive and help him when we don't agree with him?

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How Do I Find Safe Relationships?

January 19, 2021 — Alison Cook

I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now and think he might be abusive. I was sitting in your Christian Perspectives class and as you described the details of abusive relationships, I realized that I am in one. How could this happen to me without realizing it? I know I need to break up with him, but I'm scared. If I could fall for someone that is abusive once, could I do it again? How do I know if someone is safe before it's too late?

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Should I Turn the Other Cheek?

December 2, 2020 — Alison Cook

"Recently, I've had to deal with an individual that is difficult, manipulative, and often downright mean. This relationship can be agonizing at times, but shouldn't I turn the other cheek? Isn't that how we're supposed to deal with challenging people?"

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