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What Makes a Healthy Relationship?

April 29, 2026 — Chris Grace

What does a healthy, God honoring relationship actually look like? After identifying key red flags, Chris Grace shares six essential qualities that build emotional safety, trust, friendship, communication, and spiritual connection.

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Relationship Red Flags (“Ring by Spring” Is NOT in My Top Ten)

April 15, 2026 — Chris Grace

Is “Ring by Spring” really the biggest relationship concern? After decades of working with college students, Chris Grace says no. In this post, he shares ten relationship red flags that matter far more than engagement timelines and why unhealthy dynamics, not speed, are what truly threaten relationships.

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How to Cope with an Emotionally Draining Friendship

April 1, 2026 — Alisa Grace, Chris Grace

Friendships are meant to be life-giving, but some relationships can leave us feeling emotionally exhausted. Learn how to recognize the signs of an emotionally draining friendship and discover healthy ways to set boundaries while still caring for your friend.

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10 Signs of a Rock-Solid Friendship

March 18, 2026 — Chris Grace, Alisa Grace

What makes a friendship truly strong? Healthy friendships are marked by trust, joy, vulnerability, and commitment. Explore 10 signs of a rock-solid friendship and discover what helps relationships thrive over time.

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How to Communicate with a Defensive Person (Without Escalating the Conflict)

March 4, 2026 — CMR Staff

You bring up something small, and suddenly it feels like you’re in a courtroom instead of a conversation. If you’ve ever tried to talk with someone who gets defensive, you know how quickly connection can unravel. In this research-informed and biblically grounded guide, we walk through practical tools from John Gottman’s work and Scripture to help you lower defensiveness, communicate clearly, and stay connected even in hard conversations.

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Five Reminders About God for the Graduating Senior

February 18, 2026 — Rachel Pestana

Graduation brings celebration, uncertainty, grief, and hope—all at once. In this reflection, Rachel Pestana shares five reminders about who God is and how He faithfully walks with you into life beyond college.

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A Better Valentine

February 4, 2026 — CMR Staff

Valentine’s Day often carries more pressure than we realize—pressure to feel loved, seen, and celebrated. When expectations go unmet, it can leave us discouraged or disconnected. This reflection invites you to consider a steadier, deeper love—one that remains wide, long, high, and deep no matter your relationship status.

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Ask the Expert: How to Ask for Forgiveness

January 21, 2026 — Alisa Grace

Is saying “I’m sorry” enough, or should we always ask for forgiveness? Alisa Grace explores the wisdom of apologizing well—honoring genuine repentance while allowing space for forgiveness to unfold in its own time.

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How to Make the Most of your College Years

January 7, 2026 — Chris Grace

College is a formative season for learning, relationships, and spiritual growth. Drawing from decades of experience as a professor, Chris Grace shares practical, grace-filled wisdom to help students steward their time, build meaningful friendships, and live with purpose during their college years.

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Giving the Gift of Presence

December 24, 2025 — Tatum Munivez

When we’re always looking back, forward, or down at our phones, we risk missing what God is doing right in front of us. This reflection invites us to slow down and rediscover the gift of presence.

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